Step 9 - Explained
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Hello are you doing when we stopped abruptly at step 8 because step 8 in Step 9 or so closely tied together. There's really difficult to talk about one without talking about the ot
Hello are you doing when we stopped abruptly at step 8 because step 8 in Step 9 or so closely tied together. There's really difficult to talk about one without talking about the other I'm kind of running in and out of both of them at the same time. So I'm going to read step 9 step 9 says Made direct amends to such people whenever possible.

Except when to do so would injure them or others. Now, this is the step of course where you really I suggest need a sponsor's help. Of course all we through the steps. You should have a sponsors help some sponsor to help you through the steps, but this step in particular, you know, we have some real dangers when you're about to make some direct amends to people whenever possible. Okay, and when it says direct amends to me, that means that you have to again do some Big Boys some big girls stuff.

You want to make direct amends to people for the things that you have done as I talked previously about my stepchild. I didn't just write to him and say I'm sorry I went to where he was. I looked him straight in the face. I look dead in his eyes and I told him specifically the things that I had done the damage that may have occurred in his life and he could look dead at me and feel the reality of whether I was really sorry for what I had done and some people don't care if you

oh, sorry. They want to know do you understand the extent of How Deeply you hurt them, you know, a lot of people come into recovery. And once they get in recovery about a month or two all of a sudden they think that their family should take them right back they come into recovery and they say, well I haven't drank in two months. I haven't done this in two months. I haven't used drugs in too much and they still looking at me all crazy and looking at me all strange. They think everything is over because they stopped used. It's not over simply because you stop doing what you were doing. You see they have this old saying people.

Don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Right? So you may know that you've done wrong and you may know these steps and you may know that you need need to make amends. You could be in treatment right now on this and your wife or your husband come. I'm sorry, baby. I'm sorry. I'm here. I'm sorry. I'm putting you through this. Well, yeah, you are side. That's why would they want to say? Yeah you side. You've been sorry for a lot of years. That's what they want to say. So they don't want to hear you just say you sorry and you can learn some new steps. They don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. They want to know that you feel the extent of the pain that you have caused them truth of the matter is we never will feel the entire pain, but we do have a responsibility to try to understand it. And so what they want us to do is just they want to know that we know that we heard them and I think that's one of the reasons why I says Made direct amends to such people whenever possible made direct amends see a lot of people just want to Call somebody or write a letter or something like that.


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